One of my ex's was extremely uncomfortable being naked even home alone so I would drop my clothes at the door as usual and let him know that's how I feel most comfortable, how I spent my life and that he could join me but that there was no judgment either way. Eventually he would sneak off a piece of clothing here and there after a day or two he would practically fly around the house free as a bird happy as a clam. I just wish I had explained the importance of sitting on a towel especially on my white couch but at least he is now more at one with himself.
My wife and I were married for 5 years before I had my epiphany that I am a naturist, that naturism is a significant part of who I am, and it has nothing to do with sex, but rather feeling as close as one can to nature. Luckily my wife is both outdoorsy and understanding, and loves me for who I am, no matter what.
She agreed to accompany me to my favorite clothing optional resort so she could see for herself what the draw for me was, what the people were like, and to make sure I wasn't going to someplace I shouldn't be going. I give her all the credit in the world for coming with me, even though it's not her thing. Click below to read more... I rediscovered nudism, I had been a skinny dipper in my childhood. After marriage, my wife didn't take it well. We fought constantly about it, she was insecure felt it was a sex thing. We went to counseling and the counselor suggested I might be gay, lol. Wonder where her mind went?
We struggled on, she reluctantly attended nudist gatherings private parties beaches clubs. But after a few years plain refused to go anymore. I tried not going for a couple of years but I couldn't let it go. Eventually we had one too many big fights and I left and sought a divorce. I'm much happier now. I live fulltime in nudist camps, migrating annually to follow the sun. I met a wonderful woman and introduced her to nudism. There is someone out there who will appreciate you. Its just a matter of matching up. |
More information for couples who don't see eye-to-eye about nudism. HERE
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